L.O.V.E
luvs. i'm very much in luv rite now! alhamdulillah, my 5-year relationship's still going strong, and of coz, like most couples wud want, one day we hope that we could finally settle down. without we even realising it, a lot of things happen along the way.. the toughest moment would be when i was away in NZ for 2 years. omigod.. such a miserable experience.. we used to spend lotsa time together, maybe that made everything even harder. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but what if it happens the other way around? but i'm glad we managed to go thru dat obstacles.. maybe dis is what we call jodoh..
i hope dis will not be one of the soppiest posts you've ever read.. but i can't help smiling whenever i remember about my own experience.. i mean, good things are meant to be shared, aite? anyhu, sometimes i feel deeply disappointed wit people who take things easy when it comes to love. some do not even try to patch up their relationship after bitter rows or misunderstanding. they prefer to accept dat as fate and do nuthing bout it! they really haf to start taking things seriously.. else it will make matters worse, whether they realise it or not.
sum people wud ask me, "what's your secret?".. i juz smile and straightaway say 'communication'.. nahhh.. dat's the secret ingredient any couple needs. for me, when you are able to communicate well with your partner, automatically everything will fall in place too. i mean, how can you love somebody when you can't even communicate with em well? shy? uncomfortable? no chemistry? cut the crap, will you, and start communicating!! share things out as a problem shared is a problem halved.. couples are supposed to support one another, remember?
then comes 'understanding'.. for me, i believe that tis is the most important element of all. when we're able to understand each other's needs, situations and feelings, am sure that we can avoid any misunderstanding. by then only we'll be able to stay harmonious, aite? but ensure that one does not take advantage of the significant other k!
another thing is 'respect'.. in a relationship, we have to respect each other.. treat em like how we want other people to treat us. we must also accept our partner for the way they are, and vice versa. when we respect each other, it's easier to discuss about things.
another essential element in a relationship for me is 'caring'.. if you love your partner, SHOW IT! especially when it comes to women, they simply love attention.. i mean, who don't? dat goes the same for men, but naturally i believe women haf no difficulty in demonstrating their love and care. and yes, show your partner that you're somehow obsessed wif em.. but remember not to overreact or you'll find your partner leaving you sooner than you thought hehehe..
and, ensure that you include humour too. without it, undoubtedly the relationship would appear dull and dreary, wouldn't it? besides, laughter is the best anti-aging agent, so why wait? go ha-ha wif ur partner!
lastly, be positive that your relationship will work out alright.. be happy and dun forget to pray after each prayer so that the relationship will last, insyallah.. god will help us too! we cannot expect everything will go according to plan if we dun make any effort, aite?
cheers!
i hope dis will not be one of the soppiest posts you've ever read.. but i can't help smiling whenever i remember about my own experience.. i mean, good things are meant to be shared, aite? anyhu, sometimes i feel deeply disappointed wit people who take things easy when it comes to love. some do not even try to patch up their relationship after bitter rows or misunderstanding. they prefer to accept dat as fate and do nuthing bout it! they really haf to start taking things seriously.. else it will make matters worse, whether they realise it or not.
sum people wud ask me, "what's your secret?".. i juz smile and straightaway say 'communication'.. nahhh.. dat's the secret ingredient any couple needs. for me, when you are able to communicate well with your partner, automatically everything will fall in place too. i mean, how can you love somebody when you can't even communicate with em well? shy? uncomfortable? no chemistry? cut the crap, will you, and start communicating!! share things out as a problem shared is a problem halved.. couples are supposed to support one another, remember?
then comes 'understanding'.. for me, i believe that tis is the most important element of all. when we're able to understand each other's needs, situations and feelings, am sure that we can avoid any misunderstanding. by then only we'll be able to stay harmonious, aite? but ensure that one does not take advantage of the significant other k!
another thing is 'respect'.. in a relationship, we have to respect each other.. treat em like how we want other people to treat us. we must also accept our partner for the way they are, and vice versa. when we respect each other, it's easier to discuss about things.
another essential element in a relationship for me is 'caring'.. if you love your partner, SHOW IT! especially when it comes to women, they simply love attention.. i mean, who don't? dat goes the same for men, but naturally i believe women haf no difficulty in demonstrating their love and care. and yes, show your partner that you're somehow obsessed wif em.. but remember not to overreact or you'll find your partner leaving you sooner than you thought hehehe..
and, ensure that you include humour too. without it, undoubtedly the relationship would appear dull and dreary, wouldn't it? besides, laughter is the best anti-aging agent, so why wait? go ha-ha wif ur partner!
lastly, be positive that your relationship will work out alright.. be happy and dun forget to pray after each prayer so that the relationship will last, insyallah.. god will help us too! we cannot expect everything will go according to plan if we dun make any effort, aite?
cheers!
.jpg)
Comments